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Why Do I Feel Responsible for Everyone?
Caring for people and carrying people are not the same thing. Sometimes healing starts the moment we're finally willing to put down what was never ours to carry alone.
5 days ago


DBT Steps to Deal with Big Emotions: Practical Strategies for Navigating Intense Feelings
Big emotions are most often rooted in intense experiences and trauma.
Aug 8


Psychedelics, Neuroplasticity, and Healing: What BDNF Means for Trauma Recovery
By increasing neuroplasticity and BDNF, psychedelics may help soften deeply ingrained patterns. But lasting change still depends on safety, relationship, and integration over time.
Jul 26


You Deserve a Therapist Who Gets It: What Allyship Actually Looks Like
July is BIPOC Mental Health Awareness Month, established in honor of writer and mental health advocate Bebe Moore Campbell, who worked to bring visibility to the mental health needs of Black communities and other underrepresented communities. For those of us working in mental health, this month asks us to do more than acknowledge disparity. It asks us to look honestly at the care we're offering and ask whether we're actually meeting the needs of the people we say we serve. At
Jul 14


What Independence Really Means: Emotional Freedom in a Divided World
What Independence Really Means: Emotional Freedom in a Divided World
Jul 6


When Love Feels Unsafe: Hypervigilance, Attachment, and Complex PTSD
There's a particular kind of exhaustion I see in clients with complex trauma. It's not just anxiety, and it's not just fear. It's the experience of constantly tracking something (subtle shifts in tone, a delayed text, a change in energy) trying to answer one quiet but urgent question: am I still safe here? If this resonates, you're not alone, and you're not "too much." What you're experiencing often sits at the intersection of hypervigilance, attachment, and the nervous syste
Jul 1


How to Heal Wounds from Your Father
Father wounds shape us in ways we don't always recognize. Here's how to understand your pain, communicate with your father, and begin healing — with or without reconciliation.
Jun 21


Healing is Not Linear: Embracing the Journey of Recovery
Trauma (and the big, formative moments that shape our patterns of thinking and behavior) carves grooves into the way we move through the world.
Jun 11


Rooted in Ritual: Activating for Seasonal Affective Disorder SAD
Discover how behavioral activation and seasonal outdoor activities can help manage Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). Learn evidence-based strategies from a psychotherapist’s perspective. Every fall, I return to Pennings Orchard in Warwick, NY—a tradition that grounds me in the rhythms of the season. As a psychotherapist, I’ve learned that these rituals are more than nostalgic—they’re a form of behavioral activation, an evidence-based approach to treating depression and Seaso
Oct 3, 2025
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